Gold Star Lapel (U.S. Army) The Gold Star Lapel is a symbol of sacrifice and honor within the U.S. Army, representing families who have lost an immediate family member while serving in the military. This emblem is typically a gold star on a dark background, which is worn by survivors to show their connection to the deceased service member. It’s a poignant reminder of the sacrifice made for the nation and serves as a gesture of support and respect. The Gold Star Lapel pin is often accompanied by a black ribbon, adding to its somber yet dignified character.